Few things have such a huge impact on happiness and the enjoyment, depth, and fun of life as the friendships we have.

It could be the friendships with people in our community, workplace, gym, or school. Close friendships can evolve with the people we’ve known for a few months, years, or since we were kids. Personally, I spend a lot of time cultivating and nurturing an array of friendships, while also striving to be a good friend.

Sometimes. If we’re fortunate enough. The most priceless bonds can form with people we have never met in person. Perhaps they live in another city or state, or halfway across the world. I have a friend who lives in a land far, far away. Her name is Jill Barkley, and I’ve never met her In person. Well, let me tell you, that little detail hasn’t stopped us from becoming best friends. I can’t wait for the day when we meet and talk about our friendship, so treasured and deep – not on FaceTime, but face to face!!! 

I was introduced to Jill In early 2016 and started doing a weekly segment together on her RNIB Connect Radio “Morning Mix” show. It’s definitely one of  the highlights of my week! I came across a featured story on MakeHer Movement, that will tell you about this gorgeous girl who lost her sight, but not her fight. Her resiliency is nothing short of true beauty.

HERE IS JILL’S STORY

Imagine MANY stunning, sensational, beautiful colours unfolding before you… the only way to make you experience the exquisite beauty of these colours is to tell you Jill’s story.

Once upon a time there lived a fragile teenager named Jill who was watching the most beautiful New Year’s Eve fireworks in Switzerland. Six months later Jill aged 19 was completely blind.

Due to a condition called Diabetic Retinopathy, which was a result of Type 1 Diabetes, Jill’s sudden sight loss was a situation she had to learn to accept very quickly. The visits to the best doctors and the best treatments only brought Jill to her knees crying helplessly – till one day she stood up, wiped her tears and accepted the colour black.

Now that’s also about the time her colour black started turning colourful.

Before getting to the core of the story – here are some notes from the diary of a teenager who turned blind literally overnight!

· Me or my family didn’t know anybody who was blind – NOBODY. So how does one make blindness a way of life? No “How to” book available.

· Nothing changes for you when you turn blind overnight – you love people just the same. Family, friends, neighbours etc. But does everyone love you the same? See you the same? Or do they view you as an exhibit?

· When your little brother’s heart is broken because you will never be able to see him again, that’s when you turn your life around for him. You decide that no matter what, you will never give up – you will not end up just weaving baskets and answering calls.
Source: http://www.girlgoneblind.com/the-beauty-of-resiliency-in-a-life-after-sight-loss/